In your opinion, what is the main cause of cheating or having an affair in a relationship?

[32Tanawat055]

Personally, I think one of main reasons for having secret affair is having relationship problems. In one’s relationship. There are many problems that he or she has to encounter such as problem from poor communication, conflict between one’s characteristic, and financial problem. These problems can cause negative feeling or negative attitude and make some people annoy or dislike their lovers. Furthermore, these can cause unhappiness in a relationship. So, some people might cheat their lovers or have secret affairs because of relationship problems.

[43Supanida120]

I accepted that I used to almost cheat a man from another girl. Fortunately, I didn't do that because there were someone made me realize to the goodness. I truly understood the feeling of those people. I truly understood the phrases 'Mr.Right comes in the wrong time'. When one has a deep feeling into love, one is infatuated. When this situation happens, do not blame on one person, it is because both of them intend to create the relationship.

Supanida 120 4EN

[42Supaporn066]

In my opinion, I think cheating in relationship or having an affair in relationship has a main cause from ignorance between the couple. I think even we have loved each other for long time, we don't need to ignore or think even we don't say love or do the same things as we used to do when starting the relationship, our lovers will stay with us and understand the changes. NO!! If we don't add some sweet words or make something special in some occasion, the lovers will get bored, the relationship become boring. So they will look for something exciting.
Supaporn066 4EN

[32Piyakamol024]

There’s no main reason. The reason people cheat is because they choose to cheat. There are plenty of people in unhappy, unfulfilling, boring, insert "reason I cheated" relationships who yet remain faithful to their partners. This isn't to say there are things that go wrong between lovers that enable affairs, perhaps even some mitigating circumstances, but they are not reasons.

Piyakamol 024 3EN

[41Pornjan030]

In my opinion, the main cause of cheating or having an affair in a relationship is needing endlessly between the couple. The reason why I answer like this I have ever met this situation before. My ex-boyfriend he was an endless guy who never think that he will let me be the last one in his life. Finally, he broke me up and I was cheated by his secret about having a another girl.
Pornjan 030 4EN

[42supatcha064]

I think people have many factors of cheating and having an affair in their relationship such as they find someone who better than their lover, so they try to have an affair with their relationship. Or they are laid by their lover so they want to find someone that they can trust and be loyal instead of their lover.

Supatcha064 4EN

[43Natthamon092]

There are a few reasons for an affair to happen. Somebody will become unhappy,
you can have problems in the relationship/marriage,
fighting and arguing long enough to where it can be unhealthy.
Insecurity is another reason you’ll never be satisfied and it’ll lead to a polyamorous lifestyle.
Money, you can have financial issues and somebody might meet somebody who has more wealth.
And this usually entices you to try to get with them just so you can have an easier life.
Pretty selfish. Committing adultery will make you look very bad in the future.

Natthamon092 4EN

[41Kamolrat003]

As a research, I gonna tell you 5 main reasons why people having an affair.
1st lack of communication between partners
2nd tiredness
3rd bad history with sex
4th stress
and 5th lack of emotional intimacy

Kamolrat003 4EN

[32Grittawit003]

In my opinion, there are three main causes of cheating or having an affair in a relationship.
Firstly, they may have problems in their relationship.
Secondary, they may lack of communication.
Thirdly, they both lack of trust in each other.
Anyway, the items above are from some websites that I have read.

Grittawit 003 3EN

[42Wachayamin046]

My ideas are like the first is the understanding between each, sometimes we might not understand all things that our partner does but finally we must find out to keep our relationship. Second, the past of the story which is still be taught in the recent time with the new one. I think if we know each much and trust each other, this one is not gonna happen. Third might be about the lack of conversation between each when they're arguing, if someone tries to solve the problems but other keep quite so this can turn to be more worst. I'm pretty sure if we love him/her much, we won't want to have another one.
Wachayamin046 4EN

[42Sontaya056]

I do not have any idea about what exactly is the real cause of people commit having an affair. Maybe having an affair makes their lives more excited and they may feel alive because of it. However, it is definitely not a good idea to cheat the one who loves you by having an affair. No one deserves cheating.

Sontaya056 4EN

[43Natthakan088]

People also cheat because of relationship reasons.
Boredom can lead to an affair in both men and women who are looking for the excitement and passion associated with new partner.

Natthakan 088 4EN

[41Thamonwan017]

In my point of view, I think that Cheating is Cheating, not want any reasons to explain it.
Actually, when someone cheats his/her couple it means she/ he destroy all of this love and want to start a new one.
No reason, No cause, just only doesn't believe in this love and want to start the new one.

Thamonwan017 4EN

[43Apinya125]

I think it is because someone in that relationship feels like another one is not click. That's why he/she starts looking for someone else. If he/she finds that person and do not tell the other, that might be the cause of an affair.

Apinya 125 4EN

[41patchawan028]

I think the main cause of cheating or having an affair in a relationship is that the couples don't talk to each other as much as they can. Each side just let a little problem goes and don't talk about it anymore. When a little problem becomes a big problem, it is hard to make understanding to each other because each side don't make understanding at the first times that the problem happens.

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[31Chanin083]

I think that the reason is people never get enough. They still want more including love and desire. Or someone might want to have some excitement of doing something like having an affair with other people even he or she has the right one already. In fact, we have a lover already why we want more? So, one thing we should learn is trust. We should trust our people and give them trust too.

Chanin 083 3EN

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